Life
" You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you ." Life. It's what happens while all the other crap is going on, and recently I've found out that this is more true than I could have imagined. Married young, had children young, brought them up as best we could. I couldn't be prouder of my children, though now they're adults. They've had their moments, as have I but we've come through and now have a wonderful if unusual relationship. My mum taught me well in the art of knowing when to interfere and when to step back and let them make their own mistakes. They've always known where their soft place to fall is and they've used it to good effect. Change is inevitable, and when I became separated over a year ago I thought that was a big enough change to last me a lifetime. It was a sad time, but had been in th